July 14, 2009

  • WCFQ #12: It’s a lifestyle choice

    WCFQ #12:
    What are your thoughts
    on the vegetarian life style?

    Oceans_Beautiful_View


    I’m a vegetarian, though not vegan. Even if I moved away from my carnivorous family, I’m still a cheese addict. I’ll never be able to give up the creamy goodness. I do eat free range poultry and wild caught fish, though I have misgivings about the fish. With the state of our oceans today, I’m not sure that it’s even ethical any more to eat fish unless you catch it yourself and know the approximate impact of your next meal on the environment.

    I’m a vegetarian for ethical and health reasons. Ethically, I don’t buy mass produced meats because factory farms constitute cruelty to animals. The animals are fed foods to bulk them up, but which are not necessarily good for them and that extends to the meat not being good for us. Their diets are basically restricted to the livestock equivalent of junk food. Kind of makes you look at obese people in a whole new light…. Not that I’m slurring overweight people, but by extension, if we bulk up our livestock with a junk food diet and then consume that junked-up meat in addition to all the normal junk food that people have access to, it’s no wonder morbid obesity is one of the main health issues in America today. And junk food diets make people feel ill, weak, bloated, and craptastic, so imagine how sickly the animals must feel before they are killed when that is in effect their only food source. There is also the fact that the only reason Mad Cow Disease ever happened was because we were (still are in many cases) feeding the waste bits of slaughtered animals back to herbivorous animals, first of all turning them in unintentional cannibals and secondly introducing diseased proteins into the food supply. Yay us! We’re sooooo smart and junk. o.O

    There is also the fact that the animals are kept in pens much too small for comfort or health. This serves the purpose of allowing the factory farms to “grow” a maximum number of animals and glean the largest profit from their “harvest” while keeping the meat tender from unused muscles. The animals have poor ventilation and often are left to wallow in their own filth. Chickens, in particular, because of their propensity for pecking each other in tight quarters, are de-beaked and force fed because they cannot feed themselves. Hens are forced to lay eggs until they get osteoporosis (because the calcium depleted through egg laying is not replaced in their diet) and then they are slaughtered.

    And like I said, I also question the ethics of eating fish. Many of the ships used to harvest fish from the sea use drag nets which kill everything they come in contact with. Not to mention the reefs it destroys as it drags. And anything which is brought up and not fit for human consumption is let to die, rather than being returned to the sea to live. I’m sure that some methods are better than others, but finding out which methods are used by which companies is the difficult part. Better to eat as little fish as possible. Not to mention the amount of pollution in the seas is rising. Mercury poisoning is the least of what you have to worry about if you eat lots of fish.

    Now, don’t get me wrong. I think everyone is entitled to decide what they ingest. I’m not a PETA crazy. We’re omnivores, and we are able to eat both animal and vegetable proteins. I don’t have a problem with people who eat meat. I just think that some people might choose differently if they knew exactly what their food went through before hitting their plate. One way or the other, ethically or for health reasons, eating meat is just not that healthy. In moderation, I don’t think it’s so bad, but I know lots of people who like nothing more than a big heeping plate of meat, a big old meat sandwich on bread so processed it’s nothing more than empty calories, heck we even have the low-no carb diets… all meat, all the time. It’s just not healthy. Not to mention the fact that our digestive system is that of an herbivore. Our intestines are simply too long to properly process the meat. Unless we also ingest large amounts of fiber to make it pass quickly through our digestive tract, the meat will fester and rot in your gut before you finally um, process it and get rid of it.

    What I’m saying here is, I don’t think it’s ethical to eat meat unless you know where it comes from and that it was treated right before being killed. Health-wise, you just don’t know what you’re eating if you buy it from the supermarket. Speaking as an empath, the chemicals produced by the animal’s short life of misery and horrific death is something you ingest too. It’s one of the reasons it’s better to reduce or remove meat entirely. I honestly think that our diet contributes to the epidemic of depression people are facing. Drugs are not the answer. A healthier, more balanced diet is.

    I haven’t eaten meat from mammals since the 90s. I eat free range poultry about once every other week, and fish about once a week. Like I said, I probably wouldn’t even eat that much if not for my family, but my mother has this thing where if she doesn’t make any meat for me, she says she feels like she’s not feeding me at all. Of course, I do most of the cooking, but that just means they want me to cook meat-heavy dishes for them. :-/





    July 14th


    The 1st of the Epagomenal Days is the Birthday of Osiris.


    This is Reed Dance Day in Africa.





July 13, 2009

  • Pro-choice, not pro-abortion

    So, my sister is pregnant, but not happily. She and her boyfriend are constantly fighting. They say they are not, that they are just teasing each other, but it doesn’t seem that way to me or anyone else. Really, I don’t think they will stay together. Personally, I don’t see how anyone could stay with my sister. She’s… well, she’s a b****, with a capital B. She always has been. She’s downright nasty at the best of times. I truly worry about my nephew and what living with her will do to his state of mind. Not that I’ve ever seen her do anything that could be construed as abuse, but psychologically? She’s a mess, moody as heck even when she’s not pregnant.

    My sister is, in a word, selfish. No matter what she does for others, she thinks of herself first and all others be damned if they don’t fit into her plans. She has as much as admitted this. I am sure she loves my nephew and has said that if her boyfriend treats the new baby better than my nephew, as in playing favorites to his own child, then he is gone. But she also bluntly talks about abortion, makes jokes about it, has gone so far as to look up how far into her pregnancy she can still have one done. She does so loudly and in front of my nephew and her boyfriend. I can’t figure out if it’s a threat to keep her boyfriend in line or if she’s just being her typical self-involved self.

    But I don’t think it’s fair to my nephew. He’s getting close to six, and I don’t imagine he’s completely oblivious to what’s going on. We’ve all taken steps to ensure that he’s “involved” in the pregnancy. He puts his head on her belly and says the baby farted or giggled or all manner of things. He talks about what he’s going to do with a baby sister (he doesn’t want a little brother). He’s already attached to the baby.

    And yet my sister keeps up her jokes about abortion. She holds it over her boyfriend’s head like an anvil. Personally, I don’t think he’s going to be a good father. He’s like a big child himself.

    Regardless, I don’t appreciate the jokes, and I told her so. I think it is ultimately her choice and gods forbid anyone gives her advice on how to raise her child or live her life, but if she’s going to have an abortion, she needs to think about how her son is going to feel about the death of his unborn sibling, especially with how we’ve all worked to keep him a part of the arrival. (Not like when my sister was born, and I was basically ignored. No one made any attempt to involve me in the process, and we had rivalry issues for years.) We’ve all worked hard to make sure E- isn’t threatened by this change to his family. And yet my sister is acting as ignorant as can be about how an abortion would affect my nephew, especially if years later he remembers all the talk about it beforehand.

    Frankly, I’m repulsed by how my sister is acting. I’m pro-choice. Like I said, it’s her decision and I don’t contest that. But it’s not a joking matter either. It’s a serious decision that affects more than just her. It disgusts me that she can joke about it at all. I understand that the life the baby is coming into may be less than ideal and that her relationship with its father may not last, but we’ve bought her furniture for the baby. We’ve bought E- books dealing with new babies and being a big brother. If she decides in the month left to her that she is not going to have this baby, E- is going to be devastated. At this point, I think it’s late in the game to be considering abortion. She says she can still have an abortion up to 24 weeks. Personally, I think 16 weeks is pushing it even if she can’t “feel anything yet.”

    I just think she is way too cavalier about the possibility of getting rid of the baby.





    July 13th


    During the three day Buddhist O-Bon festival of Japan, the spirits of the dead mingle with the living. It is a time for family reunions so that the entire family, living and dead, may share in the day’s festivities. After house cleaning is finished, the family moves on to the shrine or grave of their loved ones and fill the site with offerings of herbs, flowers, and food. On the evening of July 12th, the family gathers at the grave-side to greet ancestral spirits and escort them home. Called the Feat of Lanterns by foreigners, the nights are illuminated by lanterns and torches. For the rest of the festival, families feast, laying a place at all meals for their deceased. Celebrants gather outside in parks or squares to participate in the traditional Bon Dance intended to greet and comfort the wandering souls. At the end of the festival, farewell fires are lit and lanterns are set out to help the spirits find their way home. In some areas, little boats equipped with lanterns are also sent out.




    The birthday of Ra occurs on the 30th day of Mesore.




July 12, 2009

  • Beat

    Ugh… so tired. I just spent the day cooking my brother’s birthday dinner and then cleaning up.

    Let me clarify…

    I started cooking at 9AM and finished at 3PM. I had to cook enough for nine people to take home leftovers and make soup for them also to take with them. So, I actually cooked from 9AM to 6, counting the soup. I cooked: two chickens and homemade gravy, a ham, corn on the cob, homemade mac and cheese, mashed potatoes, green beans, and two kinds of rolls. This was my only meal of the day. Then I made noodle soup from leftover chicken and gravy so that my brother could take some home.

    I’m beat. G’night.





    July 11th
    (yesterday)


    Theano, wife of Pythagoras and a philosopher herself, is sometimes considered the patroness of vegetarians. She was a native either of Crete or Crotona.



    The Naadam, or Three Manly Games, festival of Mongolia is celebrated with horse racing and feats of archery and wrestling. Of course, this is a misnomer. Women and children participate in the races and archery contests.



    According to the Egyptian calendar, on the 28th of Mesore the Feast of Min is celebrated.





    July 12th
    (today)


    This day was revealed as the luckiest day of the year by the archangel Gabriel. Healing, planting, house building, traveling, and war were all supposed to proceed without a problem. Children born today would be wealthy, and students who began their work today would be great scholars. A new job begun today would be successful.



    On the 29th day of Mesore, a festival was held in the Temple of Sokar and in the Estate of Ptah.




July 10, 2009

  • WCFQ #10: There’s nothing fair about life

    WCFQ #10:
    Do you feel life is fair?
    Why or why not?
    topremier


    In so far as life is unfair for everyone, life is pretty fair. I mean, life can’t be more fair to people who are basically leeches on the face of the earth, who will never seriously have to work a day in their lives, but who continue to squeeze people in their companies for a bit more blood to line their pockets. That’s not very fair to them or to the rest of us. For their part, it ensures that they may well never develop an actual personality or maturity. They will just be immature, needy babies who take, take, take, for the rest of their lives. It’s all they know how to do since they’ve only ever been given everything they want. People who are rich from birth suffer from developmental limbo.

    And obviously, it’s not fair for us… the “working poor.” I mean, I’m not destitute, but I’m sure not on easy street. I worry if one bill goes amiss. That’s pretty much endgame for me. One bill, and it throws everything into chaos. It must be nice to not have to worry about one little bill of approximately $200 screwing up all your funds.

    For instance, I recently sent a payment for my car which the idiots applied entirely to my principal instead of counting it as a payment. So nine days after it was actually due, they called me at work to ask after the payment. Once they realized what had happened, they assured me they would fix it.

    They didn’t.

    So I received a letter, saying my bill was overdue and another letter showing my regular monthly bill and a double payment due. So I called, and that’s when I found out that they had not in fact fixed their error. I was assured that it would be fixed.

    It wasn’t.

    I received a call, again at work, about three days later asking after my payment. At which point, I lost it and told the person on the line that it should have been fixed way back in the middle of June. She assured me that it would be and was very sorry and that I should just send my regular payment. I told her not to call me at work again as it was very unprofessional.

    I apologized for my rudeness, well aware that the person on the line was not responsible for the screwups of her colleagues, but if I get one more phone call or notice, I’ll borrow the money I still owe on my car from a family member or three, pay it off, and never again will I do business with the company that holds the title to my car.

    But rich people don’t have to worry about things like this ruining their day, their finances, or their credit score. How fair is that?

    Bitter? Nope, not me. I just want what’s fair.





    July 10th


    Once every four years, the ancient Athenians celebrated the Panathenaea in honor of Athena, their patron goddess, by presenting her with a brilliant new robe. It would first be paraded through the streets before the priests would dress the goddess’s statue with the robe.


    Holda, Hela, and Skadi are northern European goddesses of the shades and underworld. The procession of Lady Godiva once included the images of a white Holda and a black Hela. Knut the Reaper is honored today. His symbol, the scythe, is also an emblem of the destroying goddess Skadi, patroness of Scotland and Scandinavia.




July 9, 2009

  • WCFQ #9: Luck… she’s a quirky mistress

    WCFQ #9:
    Do you believe in luck?
    Oceans_Beautiful_View


    Yeah, I do, and if you’ve got any extra, send it my way. I could definitely use some.

    Luck, I believe is akin to synchronicity and equally hard to control, though some people seem to have all the luck to the extent that they are seemingly born lucky. Luck, like synchronicity, is something you seldom see coming.

    But really, it’s all in perception. Even people who have “no luck at all” are not completely luckless. After all, they’re still alive and kicking, even if they might be gruesomely and grotesquely disfigured and skulking about in the shadows to hide the deformities of their miraculous survival. Oh, wait, miraculous survival… so they were lucky after all. Just, you know, not quite lucky enough.

    The thing is, everyone is lucky in their own way in their own time. Ever almost fall down a flight of stairs? or almost hit an animal in the road? or almost say the wrong thing to someone with a lot of muscle and little inclination to control their baser instincts? That, my friends, was luck. (Yes, common sense is a form of luck, just the rarest of the rare forms.)

    Now if we could only harvest luck. Imagine the resale value. Yes, my friends, luck… in aerosol form.. Hmmm, I believe Axe bodyspray would have us believe they’ve acquired a very specific form of luck. I wonder if it works in casinos…

    Everyone is lucky, except when they’re not. You really can’t pick and choose when you’ll be lucky; you just have to hope that you will have it when the time is right. If it came down to it, I’d be happier if I was luckier in the face of my immanent destruction over winning the lottery. On the other hand, who’s to say that good luck is always good. Sometimes the worst luck comes from having been “lucky.” Many people who win the lottery end up colossal jerks in the end and no one loves them, except if there’s money in it for them. Some people who seemingly defied the odds and survived a horrific and tragic accident might feel as if they’d been better off dead.

    One man’s luck is another man’s accident waiting to happen.





    July 9th


    No holy days for today.




July 8, 2009

  • WCFQ #7: Hell No


    WCFQ #7
    :

    Do you believe in Hell?
    SeriousSideofSatanicSquirrels

    Nope.

    The thing about Hell is… it only exists for those who think it exists. If you don’t believe in it, it just isn’t there. Essentially, no one can send you there but you. It’s just that simple.

    People have built up a whole mythology of hell and hellishness, and on some plane it must exist because people believe it does. If people are willing to lend energy to an idea, they can create it. So I choose not to believe in the Christian hell or lend energy to its maintenance. The only way you could ever end up in such a place is if you honestly felt you deserved it, or if others convinced you that you did.

    The myth of hell is based on a variety of sources, but it once had a physical location in Gehenna. This was the waste place where trash and criminals were disposed of outside the walls of Jerusalem. In another life, I was stoned by people who didn’t like what I had to say, dragged to Gehenna and set on fire. I refuse to think of myself as trash or a criminal, and I don’t think anyone belongs in a place that was based on what equates to the city dump.

    People will continue to believe in a place where people are punished and call it hell, but before the Judeo-Christian concept, there was no such place. There is an underworld, a place of the dead, in nearly every belief system, but it is not hellish. It is not a place explicitly for punishment.

    Hell is for those who believe in it, and will continue to exist for those who believe in it until they learn to believe otherwise. So long as people continue to fear death, they will fear a hell. So long as people are told that they are bad for no good reason, there will be a hell because they will come to believe through the words of others that they belong there.

    Confused? I don’t believe in hell, but others do. Belief, as an extension of the Will, creates. If you choose to will hell into existence, then for you, it exists. Yay for you… I guess. o.O





    July 8th


    The feast of St. Sunniva was a medieval version of Sunna, the Norse solar maiden.




    This is the second day of the Nonae Caprotinae honoring Juno.





July 7, 2009

  • WCFQ #6: If you’re not part of the solution…


    WCFQ #6:
    Have you ever been jealous of someone?
    magdaaaxo

    I’m jealous, and yet I’m not, of people who live life so blithely that they are completely unaware of what is going on outside their own little narcissistic reality. I’m jealous because it must be nice to have that cushion of unreality, to not be aware enough of the dangers of the world to plan against problems that might arise tomorrow or the day after. These are the people who say global warming isn’t real and that nature can take care of itself, but they’ll sure be surprised as heck when they wake up in the future and the oceans are dead from overfishing and pollution. We’re in the middle of an extinction level event, losing species practically every day, and these people continue to use their aerosol, buy imported items, and support the mismanagement of our world’s resources through their lifestyle choices. 

    But I’m also not jealous of them. Because when the $h17 hits the fan, they’re going to be overwhelmed. They’re not going to know what to do. They’re creating the problem and will go on creating the problem until the problem backs up to their doorstep, and then they won’t know how to live. I wouldn’t want to be one of these people who don’t really know how to live unless the tv tells them how to do it. I don’t want my life to revolve around the latest fashion, newest gourmand treat, or my next QVC purchase. I’m not really jealous of them, just wistful for their blissful ignorance. It must be nice to be so numb to the wailing of the world. It must be nice not to think.

    They say that the higher your IQ, the less happy you are. The smarter you are, the more you think about things. The more you think, the more you realize all the things that people do which are wrong and how that’s going to affect your life and the lives of your future family and of people you don’t even know yet but who you will love. Think of all the people who have developed cancer from exposure to asbestos and how many years the people who allowed them to be exposed knew about the toxic effects of exposure and preferred to do nothing because it was cheaper. Think about the fact that it’s okay to sell poison like cigarettes and alcohol in stores, provided they have warning labels. In the end, I’d rather be someone who thinks and is unhappy than one those people who is blissfully unaware of the harm they cause, whether they come by their ignorance naturally or through the medication that the tv tells them they should have. I want to think and know and strive for a better world. I don’t want to be part of the problem.



    July 7th


    During Hashi Matsuri or Tanabata, Japanese families mark the reunion of two celestial lovers. Called the Tanabata lovers, they are the stars Vega and Aquila, separated by the Milky Way, the “celestrial river.” Vega represents the weaver maiden Zhi Nu and Aquila is the cowherd. Children’s writing samples and personal pleas are affixed to bamboo fronds. Prayers will be answered and the children’s writing will improve.



    The Roman festival of Consualia honored Consus, god of harvests. The Feriae Ancillarum was the Festival of the Handmaids during which maids were beyond the control of their mistresses. The second festival of Parilia honors the Pales. A special feast, called the Nonae Caprotinae (Nones of the Wild Fig), was celebrated in honor of Juno on the Nones of Quintilis (7th of July). Female servants went in procession to a fig tree, carrying on all kinds of sports. Maidservants had charade fights with stones and engaged in other competitions. A feast was enjoyed at the tree, followed by a day of thanksgiving on the 8th.




July 6, 2009

  • All my friends…

    There is a protected post up. Just so you know. I’m sure you all know what that means….





    July 6


    Julian the Blessed (331-363 BC) was a learned philosopher and Roman emperor who restored pagan religions to Rome.




July 5, 2009

  • Writer’s Choice Challenge #1

    Writer’s Challenge #1:
    What’s that thing under your bed?
    (If your bed is on
    the floor,
    what’s in your
    closet or other random place
    where you tend to accumulate “junk.”)
    Reach in there and
    pull out one random thing.
    Then write a short story or poem about it.
    Be as
    factual or fantastical as you like.

    wily rabbit warriors
    rampant on fields of gray
    I smell your musty odor
    before the attack

    on my sinuses
    hiding in the pages
    magazines
    collected
    against a day of crafty need
    coating the vibrant colors
    with your dusty prints
    your warren undone
    with the flip of a mattress

    the roar of a man-made cyclone
    run rabbit run




    No holy days today



July 4, 2009

  • WCFQ #5: An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure

    WCFQ #5:
    Do you believe in fate or destiny?
    Jolteus33


    By our habits and personality, there are some things which are more probable than others. If this is fate or destiny, then yes, I believe in it. You can defeat fate by changing your habits. Recognizing an unhealthy habit or characteristic is the first step to changing your fate. Some things you can’t change.

    For instance, I read about a recent study on nicotine addiction. Basically, the more melanin you have in your skin, the stronger your addiction to nicotine because the melanin cells actually store the nicotine. This does not just extend to dark skinned people, though I would assume that your best bet concerning nicotine if you happen to have darker skin is to just never start smoking! Apparently though, if you tan regularly as part of your job (roofing, landscaping, etc) or recreationally, you are also more prone to this nicotine storage problem. So get as little sun as possible and don’t ever try smoking and maybe you can deter fate from making you a smoke stack.

    Bottom line, if you know you have a predisposition to something… either through awareness of family history or by observing your own personal habits… you have the tools to avert fate. If you know that heart attack runs in the family and that you’re probably going to have one too at some point, change your diet and get regular exercise. If you know that skin cancer runs in the family, get as little sun as possible and get regular check ups for those funky moles you got on your back. If you know aneurysms runs in your family, well… not much you can do about that. Apparently we’re all born with weak vessels in our brains that are just going to give up the ghost at some point. Sorry. I don’t know if there are any preventative measures you can take against stroke that aren’t going to make you out to be a hypochondriac.

    Ideally, we should all be examining ourselves, our habits and our physical health, on a regular basis. Which is not what most people do. Most people are more concerned with outward appearances and what other people are doing than what’s going on in their own bodies, but a healthy person, and by this I mean physically and mentally, should indulge in self examination at least once in a while. What is the measurement of “a while,” I couldn’t say, but self awareness is the key to a long life. The fates can still slip a fast one in there. You could be driving home from work and a deer could attack your car, but if you’ve made the effort to ensure that you should be on the road at all (good eyesight, reflexes, no reading, eating, or hygiene engaged in while the peddle is to the metal), then chances are, you’ll survive.





    July 4th


    The Athenian festival to honor Athena was called the Panathenaea. On the sixth day, the goddess’ statue was dressed in a new robe. This was also a holy day of the Roman Goddess Pax, goddess of peace.